No one can tell you that you are sexy until you do! You have to be able to look in the mirror and say, "Wow, I look good." You have to be able to really enjoy who you are and enjoy how you look and feel, before any one else can really appreciate you. And sexiness is not determined by what size you are, no matter what anyone says. You have to feel comfortable in your own body. So it helps to treat it right. Stay healthy, eating right and getting some form of exercise to keep the endorphins pumping, helps to keep you in the right frame of mind and the right frame for your body.
So many of us are discriminated against because of our size, whether people think we are too skinny or too fat. But what other people think doesn't matter, because as long as we are healthy and we like who we are, we'll be just fine. There will always be someone out there that finds you attractive no matter what, but there needs to be two, because you should be one of them!
Its about knowing who you are on the inside and outside. Do you like your personality? Do you like your smile? Do you like your laugh? Do you feel good about the person you are? Every part about you makes you the person you are. If there is something you don't like and you don't try to fix it or accept it, then you'll never feel whole. If you have self esteem issues, you're bound to have issues with feeling sexy. The best thing to do is to take a step back, look at the whole picture and figure out what makes you not feel the way you want to feel. Then you fix it, but if you can't, then you learn to accept it, and change the way you see it.
The saying that we are our own worst critic applies here. If you say you are fat and ugly people around you are going to say the same. But if you apply it in a more positive way and say that you are pretty and attractive, just imagine how others will perceive you. Imagine how they will feel about you if you really like who you are and how you look, because if you feel that you like yourself they will love you and if you love yourself they will adore you. So don't make it the negative, because that just brings everyone around you down to that negative level. So know that you are wonderful and beautiful and those around you will be amazed by your beauty and love your personality!
Fantastic post Goddess Lacy! I love this post:) It hits the nail on the head... No matter how much others may think we're beautiful, we wont be able to accept it until we first accept ourselves as beautiful.
ReplyDeleteIn fact when we think of ourselves as ugly, unattractive or fat we're more likely to have that point of view reflected back to us in the words of the people around us. So let's get started on recognizing our beauty and begin loving ourselves. And sure enough our world will begin to reflect our point of view.
Exactly Lorna!! Exactly! I have found this first hand. The lower I felt about myself, the lower people saw me. But on the days that I felt good and that I felt that I looked good I got great responses. It's more than just how we see ourselves, but how we feel inside and out. Its the vibrations we radiate from the inside out that will give us the reflection of others that we prefer to see.
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